Feelings and Emotions

Feelings and emotions can be very confusing and tricky, especially for young children.  They may find it hard to recognise what their feelings mean and don’t know how they should behave when they feel that way. Or they can bubble up all of a sudden and children can find it hard to recognise what those feelings and emotions are.  Sharing stories about feelings just might help.


 

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Hug – Jez Alborough

A warm, reassuring, almost wordless story with a satisfying ending. Bobo the baby chimp sees all the animals hugging their families but feels lonely himself. Finally he finds his mum – big hugs!
Age: 2+


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How Do You Feel? – Anthony Browne

This book beautifully illustrates a variety of different feelings.  A straightforward way to explore the way very young children are feeling.
Age: 1+


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Babbity’s BIG Bad Mood – M Christina Butler and Frank Endersby

Babbity rabbit is in a bad mood and his friends do their best to cheer him up. Would be a useful book to discuss feelings with a young child.
Age: 3+


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The Bad-Tempered Ladybird – Eric Carle

The bad tempered ladybird refuses to share the aphids. He meets bigger and bigger creatures, all of whom he wants to fight. He finally encounters a whale, who sends him back to the leaf with the aphids, which he now willingly shares with a friendly ladybird.
Age: 2+


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Love Is My Favourite Thing – Emma Chichester Clark

Plum has lots of favourite things, but love is absolutely her very favourite.  Plum loves her family and they love her, but trouble loves Plum too.  Sometimes she cand help doing naughty things.  Will her family still love her?
Age: 3+


Sweep – Louise Greig

Ed’s bad mood is beautifully depicted in this autumnal story. Although at the start he gets swept away he realises that it is his choice as to how he behaves.
Age 4+


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A is Amazing – Wendy Cooling and Piet Grobler

An anthology of more than thirty poems from celebrated poets, all exploring feelings, moods and emotions.
Age: 5+


 

Grumpy Duck – Joyce Dunbar

Duck discovers that her pond is dry and then no-one will play with her. A little black cloud starts to follow her round. Will she be able to shake off her bad mood?
Age 4+


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The Hippo Who Was Happy – Rachel Elliot and John Bendall-Brunello

Hippo is feeling fed up, so her mum gives her some jobs to do.  During her busy day she meets new friends and, as the title suggests, comes home happy.
Age: 3+


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The Tiger Who Was Angry – Rachel Elliot and John Bendall-Brunello

Tiger takes the Jungle Race very seriously and shouts at the other animals  when they don’t train properly.
Age: 3+


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The Zebra Who Was Sad – Rachel Elliot and John Bendall-Brunello

Zebra feels sad when his friend Giraffe moves away.  Will his other friends and a letter from Giraffe make a difference?
Age: 3+


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No Matter What – Debi Gliori

Small, a little fox, is in a bad mood and it makes him worried that his mum will stop loving him.
Age: 3+


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I Feel Frightened – Brian Moses and Mike Gordon

Looks at emotion in story format with useful notes intended for teachers and parents to use.
Age: 4+


Turtle comes out of her shell – Sue Graves

Turtle overcomes her shyness to take part in the school talent show. There are notes at the back to help when sharing this book with a child.
Age 4+


My Mixed Emotions – Elinor Greenwood

A discussion book crammed with all sorts of emotions ending with how unique you are and to believe in a positive mindset.
Age 6+

 


Looking for Yesterday – Alison Jay

A young boy starts to ponder how he can go back to yesterday his best day ever! His grandfather persuades him to always look forward and never back as there is more happiness to come.
Age 6+


Dave the Lonely Monster – Anna Kemp

Dave has retired from being a monster of destruction. When a knight arrives at his cave determined to conquer him he realises that monsters have feelings too! A rhyming text perfect for sharing.
Age 3+


The Bad Mood and the Stick – Lemony Snicket

This shows how an emotion can pass from one person to the next. A different take on discussing emotions.
5+


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Duck and Goose: How Are You Feeling? – Tad Hills

A look at feelings at a very simple level. The range of emotions is expressed effectively through the illustrations from hopeful and proud to loving.
Age: 2+


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The Great Big Book of Feelings – Mary Hoffman and Ros Asquith

All sorts of children in lots of different circumstances respond to the question ‘How are you feeling today?’
Age: 3+


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My Big Shouting Day – Rebecca Patterson

Bella is having a bad day – and it just makes her shout.  Only her magic Mummy can make things better.
Age: 3+


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Where The Wild Things Are – Maurice Sendak

The classic picture book about the use of imagination to control anger.
Age: 4+


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I’m the Happiest – Anna Shuttlewood

All the animals want to be the best at something.  Only Raccoon is happy for them all.
Age: 3+


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Marvin Gets Mad! – Joseph Theobald

When Molly eats the apple that Marvin wants he gets so mad that he turns into a stamping, stomping monster.  A funny story about the importance of keeping calm and not losing your temper.
Age: 3+


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Anna Hibiscus’ Song – Atinuke and Lauren Tobia

Anna Hibiscus feels so happy this morning she things she might go pop!  What is she going to do with all that happiness?
Age: 3+


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Misery Moo – Jeanne Willis

Misery Moo is a very sad cow, even though Lamb tries lots of ways to cheer her up. A story about emotions and friendship.
Age: 5+


 

 

Feelings and Emotions

Feelings and emotions can be very confusing and tricky, especially for young children.  They may find it hard to recognise what their feelings mean and don’t know how they should behave when they feel that way. Or they can bubble up all of a sudden and children can find it hard to recognise what those feelings and emotions are.  Sharing stories about feelings just might help.


Hug
by Jez Alborough

A warm, reassuring, almost wordless story with a satisfying ending. Bobo the baby chimp sees all the animals hugging their families but feels lonely himself. Finally he finds his mum – big hugs!
Age: 2+


Sometimes I Feel Sad
written and illustrated by Tom Alexander
Age range: 5+

Feeling sad is, unfortunately, a part of everyone’s life, and there’s not always an easy fix. This touching book helps explain to children that they’re not alone in feeling this way and is especially useful for children who struggle to express their feelings.


Anna Hibiscus’ Song
by Atinuke and Lauren Tobia

Anna Hibiscus feels so happy this morning she things she might go pop!  What is she going to do with all that happiness?
Age: 3+


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The colour of Happy
by Laura Baker

A beautiful exploration of feelings shown through colour as one little boy navigates a range of emotions – from happiness and excitement to hope and love, all on his way to present a gift to his mum. Blue is for the calm I feel wandering in the spring. Yellow is for happy when I spot a special thing. This book is the perfect introduction to both emotions and colours.
Age: 3+


All about Feelings
by Felicity Brooks

How are you feeling today? This fun, friendly and reassuring introduction to feelings is designed to help young children recognise, understand and name how they’re feeling and learn to talk about and manage their emotions in helpful ways.
Age: 5+


How Do You Feel?
by Anthony Browne

This book beautifully illustrates a variety of different feelings.  A straightforward way to explore the way very young children are feeling.
Age: 1+


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Babbity’s BIG Bad Mood
by M Christina Butler and Frank Endersby

Babbity rabbit is in a bad mood and his friends do their best to cheer him up. Would be a useful book to discuss feelings with a young child.
Age: 3+


The Bad-Tempered Ladybird
by Eric Carle

The bad tempered ladybird refuses to share the aphids. He meets bigger and bigger creatures, all of whom he wants to fight. He finally encounters a whale, who sends him back to the leaf with the aphids, which he now willingly shares with a friendly ladybird.
Age: 2+


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Love Is My Favourite Thing
by Emma Chichester Clark

Plum has lots of favourite things, but love is absolutely her very favourite.  Plum loves her family and they love her, but trouble loves Plum too.  Sometimes she cand help doing naughty things.  Will her family still love her?
Age: 3+


Exploring emotions
by Paul Christelis and illustrated by Elisa Paganelli
Age range: 5+

This mindfulness story book for children includes simple mindfulness activities, which have been shown to help relieve stress and anxiety and improve health and mental well-being. This book shows children how to cope with different emotions, from anger and jealous, to sadness and disappointment. The children are gently guided into mindfulness exercises that encourage an exploration of emotions.


A is Amazing
by Wendy Cooling

An anthology of more than thirty poems from celebrated poets, all exploring feelings, moods and emotions.
Age: 5+


The Rabbit Listened
by Cori Doerrfeld

When something terrible happens, Taylor doesn’t know where to turn. All the animals are sure they have the answer. The chicken wants to talk it out, but Taylor doesn’t feel like chatting. The bear thinks Taylor should get angry, but that’s not quite right either. One by one, the animals try to tell Taylor how to process this loss, and one by one they fail. Then the rabbit arrives. All the rabbit does is listen, which is just what Taylor needs. Whether read in the wake of tragedy or as a primer for comforting others, this is a deeply moving and unforgettable story sure to soothe heartache of all sizes.
Age: 3+


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Grumpy Duck
by Joyce Dunbar

Duck discovers that her pond is dry and then no-one will play with her. A little black cloud starts to follow her round. Will she be able to shake off her bad mood?
Age 4+


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When sadness comes to call
by Eva Eland

When Sadness arrives, try not to be afraid: give it a name, listen to it and spend some time together. Maybe all it wants is to know that it’s welcome.
Age: 4+


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The Hippo Who Was Happy
by Rachel Elliot and John Bendall-Brunello

Hippo is feeling fed up, so her mum gives her some jobs to do.  During her busy day she meets new friends and, as the title suggests, comes home happy.
Age: 3+


The Tiger Who Was Angry
by Rachel Elliot and John Bendall-Brunello

Tiger takes the Jungle Race very seriously and shouts at the other animals  when they don’t train properly.
Age: 3+


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The Zebra Who Was Sad
by Rachel Elliot and John Bendall-Brunello

Zebra feels sad when his friend Giraffe moves away.  Will his other friends and a letter from Giraffe make a difference?
Age: 3+


No Matter What
by Debi Gliori

Small, a little fox, is in a bad mood and it makes him worried that his mum will stop loving him.
Age: 3+


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Turtle comes out of her shell
by Sue Graves

Turtle overcomes her shyness to take part in the school talent show. There are notes at the back to help when sharing this book with a child.
Age 4+


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My Mixed Emotions
by Elinor Greenwood

A discussion book crammed with all sorts of emotions ending with how unique you are and to believe in a positive mindset.
Age 6+


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Sweep
by Louise Greig

Ed’s bad mood is beautifully depicted in this autumnal story. Although at the start he gets swept away he realises that it is his choice as to how he behaves.
Age 4+


Duck and Goose: How Are You Feeling?
by Tad Hills

A look at feelings at a very simple level. The range of emotions is expressed effectively through the illustrations from hopeful and proud to loving.
Age: 2+


The Great Big Book of Feelings
by Mary Hoffman and Ros Asquith

All sorts of children in lots of different circumstances respond to the question ‘How are you feeling today?’
Age: 3+


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Looking for Yesterday
by Alison Jay

A young boy starts to ponder how he can go back to yesterday his best day ever! His grandfather persuades him to always look forward and never back as there is more happiness to come.
Age 6+


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Dave the Lonely Monster
by Anna Kemp

Dave has retired from being a monster of destruction. When a knight arrives at his cave determined to conquer him he realises that monsters have feelings too! A rhyming text perfect for sharing.
Age 3+


The big angry roar
by Jonny Lambert

Cub is angry, so he stomps and smashes and roars! But now he just feels worse! Maybe his friends can help? The perfect story for any child experiencing feelings of anger and learning what to do with them.
Age: 3+

Isle of You
by David LaRochelle

Some days are harder to get through than others. Whenever you’re sad, or lonely, or angry, there’s one place you can always go: the Isle of You. Take a moment to shake off your worries, then set sail to a land where your dreams can come true. Soar on the back of an eagle, hunt for treasure, watch dancing polar bears on roller skates – anything you can imagine is yours.
Age: 3+


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Feeling Angry!
by Brian Moses and illustrated by Mike Gordon
Age range: 5+

This picture book story explores feelings of anger in a light-hearted way using everyday situations that children might be familiar with. This book
shows different reasons why young people might become angry, illustrates scenarios of them behaving angrily, and gives advice on how to calm anger in yourself and to be able to help other people. Ideal for home or classroom, this book contains notes for parents and teachers with suggestions of ways to help children deal with feeling angry.


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I Feel Frightened
by Brian Moses and Mike Gordon

Looks at emotion in story format with useful notes intended for teachers and parents to use.
Age: 4+


My Big Shouting Day
by Rebecca Patterson

Bella is having a bad day – and it just makes her shout.  Only her magic Mummy can make things better.
Age: 3+


Ravi’s Roar
by Tom Percival

Most of the time Ravi can control his temper but, one day, he lets out the tiger within. Being a tiger is great fun at first – tigers can do ANYTHING they want! But who wants to play with a growling, roaring, noisy, wild tiger who won’t share or play nicely? Ravi is about to discover something very important about expressing his feelings and making amends. A clever and engaging book about temper tantrums, dealing with emotions and learning to express and understand your feelings. The perfect book for helping with bad days and noisy outbursts.
Age: 3+


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How Are You Feeling Today?
by Molly Potter and illustrated by Sarah Jennings
Age range: 0+

Children have strong feelings and they can’t always handle them very well. Perfect for sharing, How Are You Feeling Today? is packed with fun, imaginative ways to help children understand and cope with a whole range of different emotions. A great dip-in book where children can choose a feeling that relates to them and then turn to the page that provides child-friendly strategies for dealing with that feeling. Helpful parent/carer notes at the back of the book provide more ideas for parents to use with their child and other strategies to try out together and practice the all-important skill of dealing with feelings.


Where The Wild Things Are
by Maurice Sendak

The classic picture book about the use of imagination to control anger.
Age: 4+


I’m the Happiest
by Anna Shuttlewood

All the animals want to be the best at something.  Only Raccoon is happy for them all.
Age: 3+


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I’m not grumpy!
by Steve Smallman

At the edge of the forest lives one grumpy mouse. He’s the grumbliest and grouchiest mouse for miles around. But one day he meets a little lost badger who desperately needs his help. This is a heartwarming tale about the happiness that comes from making friends.
Age: 3+


The Bad Mood and the Stick
by Lemony Snicket

This shows how an emotion can pass from one person to the next. A different take on discussing emotions.
Age 5+


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Marvin Gets Mad!
by Joseph Theobald

When Molly eats the apple that Marvin wants he gets so mad that he turns into a stamping, stomping monster.  A funny story about the importance of keeping calm and not losing your temper.
Age: 3+


Misery Moo
by Jeanne Willis

Misery Moo is a very sad cow, even though Lamb tries lots of ways to cheer her up. A story about emotions and friendship.
Age: 5+


Useful Organisations

Mental Health Foundation:
Giving support, information and help about mental health for children.

Action for Children:
Help and information to spot signs and behaviours that could point to needing more support in regards to mental health.

The Godless Boys by Naomi Wood

About the book

Imagine an alternative England, where the Church controls the country and non-believers have been exiled to a remote island.

On the Island, a fierce group of boys patrols the community, searching for signs of faith and punishing any believers. When a new girl appears, arriving from the mainland to search for her long-lost mother, the gang is split: one boy falls in love with her, another seeks violent revenge. The struggle between them will change everything.

 

Reviewed by Rucstall Mums

We didn’t like the style it was written in – the description of the book didn’t match our experience. The majority didn’t complete it L

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Sudden Rain by Maritta Wolff

About the book

Now that “Sudden Rain” has come out of its hiding place — in Wolff’s refrigerator, found after her death — it remains gloriously frozen in time. Set in the fall of 1972, the novel perfectly captures, with expansive emotion and cinematic detail, the domestic trends of three generations of middle-class couples living in suburban Los Angeles. A brilliant portrait of its burgeoning era, “Sudden Rain “also offers striking cultural commentary on our everyday notions of love and marriage; individuality, equality, and community; and the promise and pursuit of the American Dream.”

Reviewed by Monks Brook U3A

The group as a whole disliked this book, finding the characters shallow, self centred and two-dimensional. The ending does not fit with the rest of the plot and leaves many loose ends, so much so that we wonder if it was written by someone else!”

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The Other Family by Joanna Trollope

About the book

Chrissie, in the twenty-three years she’d been together with Richie, had always believed that he loved her.  He loved their three daughters and their house in Highgate and their happy, lively existence. But if she really was the love of his life, why had he never given her the one thing that would have made her life perfect?  Then suddenly Richie is no longer there, and without him Chrissie’s carefully constructed life is in jeopardy.The one big fact she had always tried to keep from her daughters threatens to overwhelm them all. For Richie had still been married to his first wife, the one with a son that he had abandoned in Newcastle. And now, with Richie gone and the practicalities of wills and money to be sorted out, it is finally time for the two families to face each other …

Reviewed by Goodworth Clatford

Very relevant to modern day life. Good characterisation. A very enjoyable read – the characters lived and were very easy to believe in. Good descriptions of Newcastle”

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Reviewed by Museum

“We applaud the Bodleian’s decision to accept Joanna Trollope’s archive as we feel she is often underrated. Accessibility does not preclude quality. Interacting modern treatment of the perennial problem of the repercussions of a wil particularly when there are two families involved. Good characterisation (particularly of Margaret) and a vivid portrayal of the North East. Interesting too that Richie’s very different wives both performed the same function – each of them ‘love’ his life

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The Colour by Rose Tremain

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Joseph and Harriet Blackstone emigrate from Norfolk to New Zealand in search of new beginnings and prosperity. But the harsh land near Christchurch threatens to destroy them almost before they begin. When Joseph finds gold in the creek he is seized by a rapturous obsession with the voluptuous riches awaiting him deep in the earth. Abandoning his farm and family, he sets off alone for the new gold-fields over the Southern Alps, a moral wilderness where many others, under the seductive dreams of ‘the colour’, are violently rushing to their destinies.  By turns both moving and terrifying, The Colour is about a quest for the impossible, an attempt to mine the complexities of love and explore the sacrifices to be made in the pursuit of happiness.

Reviewed by Ems Valley U3A

Strong, well drawn characters. Descriptions clever but not over done, so it was easy to picture the scenes for ourselves. The ending was well crafted, and appropriate for all the characters”

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The Other Side of You by Salley Vickers

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There is no cure for being alive.’ Thus speaks Dr David McBride, a psychiatrist for whom death exerts an unusual draw. As a young child he witnessed the death of his six-year-old brother and it is this traumatic event which has shaped his own personality and choice of profession. One day a failed suicide, Elizabeth Cruikshank, is admitted to his hospital. She is unusually reticent and it is not until he recalls a painting by Caravaggio that she finally yields up her story.

We learn of Elizabeth Cruikshank’s dereliction of trust, and the man she has lost, through David’s narration. As her story unfolds, David finds his own life being touched by a sense that the ‘other side’ of his elusive patient has a strange resonance for him, too.

Set partly in Rome, ‘The Other Side of You’ explores the theme of redemption through love and art, which has become a hallmark of Salley Vickers’s acclaimed work, which includes ‘Mr Golightly’s Holiday’ and ‘Miss Garnet’s Angel’.

Reviewed by The Pageturners

“Beautifully written, this novel tells the story of a psychiatrist and a female patient, a failed suicide.The author has worked as a psychoanalyst and uses this story to explore several themes – e.g. life, love and reality so plenty of scope for some philosophical discussions! Paintings bt Caravaggio and the city of Rome are featured and add interest to the narrative. Our group of five were divided in our judgement; it would seem that this book needs careful, thoughtful reading or re-reading to appreciate it fully. The reader who suggested it has read it a few times already!”

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The Kindest Thing by Cath Staincliffe

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A love story, a modern nightmare and an honest and incisive portrayal of a woman who honours her husband’s wish to die and finds herself in the dock for murder. When Deborah reluctantly helps her beloved husband Neil end his life and conceals the truth, she is charged with murder. As the trial unfolds and her daughter Sophie testifies against her, Deborah, still reeling with grief, fights to defend her actions. Twelve jurors hold her fate in their hands, if found guilty she will serve a life sentence. Deborah seeks solace in her memories of Neil and their children and the love they shared. An ordinary woman caught up in an extraordinary situation.A finely written page-turner, compelling, eloquent, heart-breaking. The Kindest Thing tackles a controversial topic with skill and sensitivity. A book that begs the question: what would you do?

Reviewed by Stubbington Book Ends

Beautifully written and very thought provoking. The characters were believable and made you wonder how you would react in a similar situation”

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Citadel by Kate Mosse

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1942, Nazi-occupied France. Sandrine, a spirited and courageous nineteen-year-old, finds herself drawn into a Resistance group in Carcassonne – codenamed ‘Citadel’ – made up of ordinary women who are prepared to risk everything for what is right.

And when she meets Raoul, they discover a shared passion for the cause, for their homeland, and for each other.

But in a world where the enemy now lies in every shadow – where neighbour informs on neighbour; where friends disappear without warning and often without trace – love can demand the highest price of all…

Reviewed by Bordon U3A Group 2

1)Took up to page 500 + to really enjoy / get into it 2) Ran on many parallel threads. 3) Very well researched and true to the truth. 4) Everyone finished it and liked it

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The House by the Sea by Santa Montefiore

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Ten-year-old Floriana is captivated by the beauty of the magnificent Tuscan villa just outside her small village, and dreams of living there someday. When Dante, the son of the villa’s owner, invites her inside, she knows that her destiny is there, with him. But as they grow up they cross an unseen line, jeopardizing the very thing they hold most dear…Decades later and hundreds of miles away, a beautiful old country house hotel on England’s Devon coast has fallen on hard times. Its owner, Marina, hires an artist-in-residence to stay the summer and teach the guests how to paint. The man she finds is charismatic and wise and begins to pacify the discord in her family and transform the fortunes of the hotel. However, it soon becomes clear that he is not who he seems…From the Italian countryside to the English coast, The House by the Sea is a moving and mysterious tale of love, forgiveness and the past revealed.

Reviewed by Sandy’s Reading Group

“’Holiday read’ is about right. Pleasant, inoffensive, quite descriptive but rather predictable”

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